How to Get a Bule Man

April 14th, 2008, in Girls, by Patung

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Tags: Advice, Books, Bule, Bules, Dating, Expats, Foreigners, Husband, Indonesians, Marriage, Relationships, Romance, Western, Westerners, Women

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perseus Says:
August 3rd, 2008 at 5:39 pm
Tomaculum wrote:

I still wait for a posting about: How to get a white woman.

Hmmm. I shall read the help file and figure out how to do a post and write it up for you!

And I prefer white, intellectual, beautiful women without restrain open for any sexual practices I can talk with (bevor and after sex).

Must admit my conversations with Indo girls have been handicapped by lack of language. I shall be heading over to study Bahasa later in the year :-). I would like to meet some sultry dusky maiden with a Master’s in something interesting who could hold up her end of the conversation from a culturally different point of view in the spa bath while sipping bubbly.
tomaculum Says:
August 3rd, 2008 at 5:53 pm
Perseus,
I meant with talking not discussing about shoes made by Manolo Blahnick or about Gucci bags, as you have recognized it, but about other “less impportant” things like cultural problems in a relationship and how to manage it. So it is not only a language difficulty.
I’m lookin forward for your posting.
Farah Says:
August 3rd, 2008 at 6:54 pm
@perseus

Must admit my conversations with Indo girls have been handicapped by lack of language. I shall be heading over to study Bahasa later in the year :-). I would like to meet some sultry dusky maiden with a Master’s in something interesting who could hold up her end of the conversation from a culturally different point of view in the spa bath while sipping bubbly.

…don’t blame them then… you barely speak indonesian too… you right, you should learn bahasa IF you really want to know indonesian girl better
Achmad Sudarsono Says:
August 3rd, 2008 at 7:18 pm
@ Perseus,

You’ll have to look long and hard for that. Recommend you go with what the situation gives you & accept that it might not be what you expected…
Farah Says:
August 3rd, 2008 at 7:29 pm
@ perseus

Getting Mr Bule is easy if you are hot looking. Keeping him away from the hordes of competing hot looking ayam is the difficulty!

…. hot means ?? dark brown skin, small nose, full lips, skinny and shorty (below 155 cms maybe??), or… the part that can’t speak english (made more sexy unique and mysterious??) hang around in bars and local pubs with mini skirt and 12 years old extra tight top..???

….. or i just miss understanding between that first “hot looking” and the “hot looking ayam”

I don’t know if theres difference tho.

hehehe…

Also as a woman, i THOUGHT ALL MAN do think about sex 24/7 and interested with anything related with sex or opposite sex (or same sex??) whether he is indonesian, asian, american, latin (they’re hot.. some of them)

Go for Latin bules (Portuguese, Spanish, Italians, Latin American). They’re more classy, handsome and they enjoy joie-de-vivre in stead of working their asses off 24/7 for the sake of complaining on virtually everything. But you have take this into consideration. They’ll love their mothers more than they’ll ever love you.

very true about the “love mom” things hehehehe…
tomaculum Says:
August 3rd, 2008 at 8:00 pm
Achmad,
what about Farah? Sounds like if she achieves Perseus’s criteria. At least she is combative.

“Also as a woman, i THOUGHT ALL MAN do think about sex 24/7 ”
We think almost 24/7 about sex, except while sitting in the john. Then we thinking about alimentations to pay.
perseus Says:
August 3rd, 2008 at 8:24 pm
…. hot means ?? dark brown skin, small nose, full lips, skinny and shorty (below 155 cms maybe??), or… the part that can’t speak english (made more sexy unique and mysterious??) hang around in bars and local pubs with mini skirt and 12 years old extra tight top..???

….. or i just miss understanding between that first “hot looking” and the “hot looking ayam”

I don’t know if theres difference tho.

Hi Farah,

Hot looking just means very good looking with the nuance of head turning, lust inspiring, very good looking. If you go to the thread on the Top 10 Hottest Indonesian girls, the first I would describe as “hot” would be Number 5, Tiara Lestari. Number 1 Revalina is very pretty, the kind of girl you would take home to mother. “Girl next door” we often say in English for that kind of wholesome look. Number 2, Acha, is cute/pretty. Number 3, Agnes, I am happy to leave as “inexplicably popular” - she alas does little for me. Number 4 is cute/pretty. Number 8 and Number 10 I would describe as hot. Number 5 and Number 8 I would also describe as striking. Number 5 I would also describe as stunning. Actually, I would be running out of superlatives for Number 5… Gorgeous, a total babe, a dreamboat etc etc.

Of course other men may argue about which of these ladies is truly hot…

Personally, I like a tall girl so I find most Indonesians rather short for me

I did meet a tall Sundanese girl on Bali who was a drop dead gorgeous babe but also a bit of a golddigger alas, so that did not last long
Purba Negoro Says:
August 3rd, 2008 at 8:53 pm
Perseus,
you said, “And cut off our infidel internet technology which is designed to perpetrate third generation neo-imperial, neo-colonial, Anglophone, world domination’”

alas, the syphilis is spreading. Those sweaty nights in Pattaya and one too many gin and tonics must have landed you a rubber-less night with a lady-boy and a free gift.

Ever notice the coincidence of high numbers of waria and bencong- (male prostitute [flamboyant] gays & cross-dressers for the English speaker) in the areas whitey lives in Jakarta- like Blok M, Jalan Bulungan, Kemang, the former Hilton (now Sultan), etc?

Apparently the bules prefer cottaging, ahem I mean cottages when they stay in Bali too.

no 2 looks like my former maid who just went off and got married
Agnes Monica- vomit.
Who’d go for those clammy Chinese green-card clawing talons of hers?

Nia is a nice girl, I know her father quite well.

But basically they’re all cheap and nasty. Just how bules like them.
The greater the desperation- the more blind the love, eh whitey?

One afternoon in any Jakarta mall with a camera would find you a thousand far more attractive, more elegant not to mention STD free women- Chinese and native.

But alas, they have the disposal income to see the middle-age bules for what they are.

Ugly sex tourists unable to land a white of equal calibre
tomaculum Says:
August 3rd, 2008 at 9:23 pm
Purbo Negoro,
your last 5 comments include only complaining, wiggings, self pitty.
What’s going on with you?
Are you castrated or do you feel you have too small p.n.s, so that you have such a huge inferiority complex?
Do you feel discriminated not having any change to marry (or just to have a date with ) one of those women like Nadine Ch., Nia, Agnes cs., so that you call them names?
I for myself do not find them interesting in any way, except …… (Ehm, I don’t know them personally).
“no 2 looks like my former maid who just went off and got married
Agnes Monica- vomit.
Who’d go for those clammy Chinese green-card clawing talons of hers?”
How would you react, if someone write:
“Purbo Negoro? Vomit … This wannabe javanese brownie looks like my former kacung etc, etc.?”
Btw: who is this Agnes Monica?
MK Says:
August 4th, 2008 at 4:48 am
Farah
Your comment made on April 16th, 2008 at 8:12 am … I would like to see that as well. That would be a good book!! I am corresponding with an Indonesian Lady myself. We get along great..online. We plan to correspond for some time. I will go and visit her soon to meet her and her family. She is not muslim so that is not an issue. We seem to have alot in common with the way we think about life in general. I’ve been married to an american woman, and believe me,,I dont think nationality prevents anyone from being mean when they decide to do so.It may impossible to please anyone all of the time. But if a couple is willing to compromise with each other then I dont see why they wouldnt get along. I treat people the way I would like them to treat me. I feel like if everyone just had mutual respect for others we would all get along a little easier. Im facinated by Asian culture in all forms. Noone I know likes violence or drug addiction. I stay away from bars and things like that because I think its a waste of time. Sitting in a bar getting drunk. Not all do that, but alot do. Just like not american men are bad,,but some are. Not all Indonesian woman are bad,,but some are. There is a positive and a negative to everything that exisits. What is a good or bad person anyway? Isnt it really just a difference in opinion? I hope the Indonesian Lady I have met is a good woman and has good intentions. I really like her alot. We talk about God, hobbies, kids, animals,food,work,crafts,art,music,nature,etc…. I worry about her being too good to be true. I’ve explained my fears to her,,and she done so to me. We both realize we are worlds apart at the same time we feel close to each other. Because we communicate alot we understand each others desire and future goals. I would like to talk to you about the subject of an American Indonesian marriage. Thanks for your time and consideration……………….MK
perseus Says:
August 4th, 2008 at 7:28 am
Purbo Negoro wrote:

alas, the syphilis is spreading. Those sweaty nights in Pattaya and one too many gin and tonics must have landed you a rubber-less night with a lady-boy and a free gift.

Ever notice the coincidence of high numbers of waria and bencong- (male prostitute [flamboyant] gays & cross-dressers for the English speaker) in the areas whitey lives in Jakarta- like Blok M, Jalan Bulungan, Kemang, the former Hilton (now Sultan), etc?

I can’t say that I did notice any such gentlemen in the areas of which you speak - but you seem suspiciously well informed

I did go to a few Jakarta Malls but, alas, I found no one quite as hot as Tiara. However, your taste is your taste and mine is mine. For the record, I am a playmate in the spa with a bottle of champagne kind of guy not one for lady boys or gin and tonics. Sorry to disappoint… Oh, and my last white mistress was a Penthouse Pet who was allegic to latex so we had to use special condoms made of some other substance. (I forget what, she brought them with her.)

But if it makes you happy to believe that all white guys shag lady boys while slurping gin Ts, who am I to get in your way? Personally, Purbo, I think you need to lighten up a bit and work on your appreciation of wit and irony.

While I am on my soapbox, you might also note that reckless overgeneralization is not the way to truth. It is the way to making yourself look silly and/or ignorant. Go for precision, verifiable facts, relevance and accuracy. This is the way of science which is the true path to world domination

Here endeth the lesson.
Farah Says:
August 4th, 2008 at 8:41 pm
@ perseus

fyi… i am 173 cm’s my sisters also tall (over 168 cms) we’re all 100% indonesian citizen and i work to pay my bills, also i dislike d*ck head who’s think all tall and pretty girl are gold diggers (i am not talking about you here for sure).

What i am trying to say is… a JERK is a JERK, no matter how stunning hot his wife is.

And its also not based on what ever his skin color he had.

@ tomaculum
don’t offer me to someone else, i am not a “thing”

We think almost 24/7 about sex, except while sitting in the john. Then we thinking about alimentations to pay.

.. and that was for.. how many secs ???
Farah Says:
August 4th, 2008 at 8:59 pm
@ MK
Sure i would love to share thoughts with you no problem at all

btw how long have you know this girl ?
tomaculum Says:
August 4th, 2008 at 9:16 pm
Farah,
sorry, but I didn’t offer you to someone else. I just wanted to show Achmad, that you achieve Perseus’ criteria.

About sex: that is the problem. We think very, very frequently about sex, but we don’t do it.
Farah Says:
August 5th, 2008 at 7:54 pm
@ toma
okay.. i got it..

and about the sex..hehehe…. sure its two different thing..
Purba Negoro Says:
August 5th, 2008 at 8:38 pm
I’m glad I hit a nerve.

I only know about Bulungan as there’s a Chinese jeweller I buy cheap gold in Blok M. We go way back.
Incidentally- his daughter married a Anglo-Celtic Australian when she was studying at uni and she sponsored her younger brother’s Permanent Residency.
Unfortunately for her parents, cousins, step-cousins, god-aunties, made-up god-children, next door neighbours etc - the Australian Government closed that oft-abused Indian-Chinese family reunion scam loophole- so now only those of working age and high enough skills/capital may enter.

I’m also glad my daughter considers middle-age whites repugnant. Thankfully she finds drooling middle-age Indonesian “Om Senang” men repugnant too.

Is this middle-age obsession with penile gratification caused by enlarged prostates?

Get your lady-boys to check that one out next time they visit via the the deliveries entrance.
Marlin Says:
August 8th, 2008 at 1:44 pm
Ouch!! I have read parts of the nasty appalling comments. Don’t worry about them Erlin, you cannot please everybody- (I wonder if they ever can be pleased when they are constantly looking for others’ weaknesses). How to catch Mr Bule in my opinion is pretty well written. It catches some basic small things that you might never realize in this “international mixed” relationship. I thoroughly enjoyed the book and I hope it changes the general attitude in Indonesia that Caucasion is “perfect”. In the end it comes down to the person not the nationality. Well done Erlin!