When my sincere question about how to meet the right girl, is reduced to the problem you describe as, "you can't get your hole," then we are planets apart in terms of respect for members of the opposite sex, which far exceeds our differences on linguistic skills and the recency of our respective dictionaries?
I apologise to all women reading your post on behalf of a form of decent mankind which you clearly do not belong to. They will perhaps perceive from this, the type of "man" you really are. In my opinion, you simpy embarrass yourself. Let the reader judge…
With great regret, you will notice from the forum listings that, unfortunately, far more than 'reader'singular' have read this thread. Have you any idea of the negative picture they could have of you?
Or maybe that's just me (!)
Nevermind 'this thread', I cannot believe that you are "still going on" , or people like you. You'll have to find someone else's sincere request to abuse now?
As to the question did I "score any digits", mind your own business!
Poor Max - incapable of finding a nice girl – (even chinless noodlenecked 'orrible little crearures can manage to hook 4 or so (though two at least were right monsters)) -
I really can't see the point of exposing oneself as a bit of a let down, and as for the rest of the old waffle – I shouldn't worry, Indo is full of bule courgettes that think they are cucumbers.
I met some good white man here and there by Internet dating but yeah sometimes can consider it such a waste of time especially if you dont online much and dont like to talk.. Since I'm very talkactive with many ideas and always consider best lover is someone that can be my best friend..so chat for some mins on net wont be a big deal… If you are sport freak..Gym can also be the place.. doing some group exercise regulary and then if u find a chance to have a short chat about the work out such as "today class was fun/today class pretty boring or etc" and keep doing that once, twice to the target (if she/he does like you then the conversation can lead to other topics)…
At campus, office, sport clubs, restaurants, book shop, mall, and surprisingly on the internet >:p I dont recommend finding good girls from clubs or bars.
Just signing to this site. It's an interesting post I guess. People here seems helpful giving some advice and tips. I think the best place to finding a right girl is everywhere. For me personally, i believe when we are looking or searching we will never find one. But there's always someone shown, unpredicatable and accidentaly.It could be at cafe when you are ordering some coffee, bookstore, music concert or gallery perhaps? The point is the right moment. And i believe only your own instinct will lead to that.
But there's always someone shown, unpredicatable and accidentaly.It could be at cafe when you are ordering some coffee, bookstore, music concert or gallery perhaps? The point is the right moment.
Uhm, I have been trying this theory in the last couple of days. Nothing happened. I mean, I stopped looking and start waiting. Nothing happened. It's been 5 days now (since the last time I went to a local gay bar).
I lost faith in that theory. Reseting the "waiting-days-count" back to 0. Going to a local bear bar now. Most probably it will be another waste of my saturday night (when I'm supposed to be finishing my video presentations), but what the heck, got to do something, it will be a short popping in and checking out anyway. Chau….
I mean, that's why I said it's a waste of time. Most of them pose like a rough, tough guy (with the sombrero, cowboy suits, and all that shit,…, los sombrerudos, that how we call them), but when they start to speak (and dance to madonna or other 80's shit), and greet each other like "hola mana" (hi sister), it kind of… turn me off. :D :D :D A friend once said they're not bears, they're "vacas locas" (mad, female, cows). But of course, there are always good specimens, just need a bit more patience and observations.
same as mr.max, my first introduction to this site is when i read the post "dating indonesian women"
and i do enjoy read it.
based on my experience to answear your question, if office n chucrh is not on your list
I can recommend Trans Jakarta bus as an alternatives way to find the 'right girl'
coz i think people who use this public transportasion are usualy an employes , working people , and college students in middle-class family. (so at list they must be educated)
me, my self is a college student and my family can sufficient for my life. and i meet two of my bule friends here. one of them is australian, n working both in bali and jakarta.
@ diego, if you think Farah is bragging herself, promoting her as etc. etc and vise versa, then, why don't you accuse the same to our beloved Mr. Max? he is also promoting himself as etc etc..Diego, i know another colleague, a nice and handsome young physicist (indonesian, of course). he needs to brag a little everytime he goes to gay bar since mostly people there have a stereotype, if you are young, gay, asian, either you come here due to marriage with whitey, and work in hotels, resto's, cleanings, or beauty salons. So, it's an O.K for him to brag a little.
If Mr. Max can brag a little as a successful professional in his field, for sure, and so can Farah.
@ Farah, of course, if the girls like to clubbing, i guess, it does not mean that they are bad ones. only, perhaps, they behave in usual way, as other people who like to get relaxed and have some chit-chat, not acting "over" or lebai in a way to attract other visitors..
Good girl that have work here in indonesia mostly i think is not a regular costumer in a bar, thats for sure.
Don't be lebay dunks! I just don't think someone who had regular job, working at 8 am pr maybe 7 am, will go EVERY DAY to bar and becomes a regular. I do like clubbing, its pretty good stress relief, but, i rarely did it, only on my days off, when i dont have to wake up 4.30 am to get ready for work.
If you are drunk, how do you expect not to be "lebay"??, and oh, doesnt mean all girls there are drunk, but under alcohol influences we do all know (i assume we all know) that people will become more agressive, talkactive and brave, silly too perhaps.
I don't need to prove anything to anyone about my self here, so, no need bragging either. Its just what i call being bold.
@ adinda: YOU HAD BEEN USING MY PICTURE FOR YOU AVATAR PROFILE IN THIS WEBSITE, WHICH ALREADY DELETED BY THE MODERATOR BY MY REQUEST, AND DON'T USE ANY OF MY PICTURES FOR ANYTHING ELSE ON YOUR BENEFIT WITHOUT PERMISSION FROM ME!!!!!!
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