Lairedion said:

Farah, absolutely no problem. I have some relatives who met their spouses thru dating sites and chatrooms.

I met a lot of close intimate friends in Blok M a few years ago

hmm.. online date.. i hav had a bf from a chat room like years ago, even if it didnt work, he is one of a kind… 80% of the strangers were actually dissapointing speaking from my experience of chatting since bachelor… although i keep doing it for fun especially when i m bored… and the funny thing is even the "foreign" chat friends only interesting in me (sometime) because of my money/profession, while i think it should be the other way around since some people "generalize" asian women as a gold-digger

I did meet someone too on one of yahoo's chatrooms. It was completely unpredictable.

I did a lot of online chat since I was still in school. never serious of course, just for fun, intended to look for new friends. Then I met this guy online unexpectedly on yahoo chatroom (artificial art). I had no idea what was in there. And then this guy said hello and we chatted. He is a Romanian guy. Almost same age as me and we got along pretty well. One chat after the others and we started to set up a chat schedule. It was like..I was counting the days to our schedule :D We felt the connection, then we officially dated. A lot of promises and dreams, and of course doubted. But he was (i can say) one of a kind. He had his own way to comfort me when I was feeling sad. We chatted with cam sometimes and really had a good time. Many times I had to wake up in the middle of the night and chatted with him. But each time was worth. And oddly I felt that he felt the same way too. What a weird feeling!

But then we broke up. I was with someone else real, he did too. But i still have a feeling for him. And after a few years without contact, we came in contact again last year. It was a happy feeling. I'm with someone now, and he knows it. Yet he said, our feelings are still the same.

Maybe I'm stupid, or plain naive, but I think our feelings are real.

Using dating website is absolutely no problem as long as you meet the people in real life… It's just a brand new way to meet people… E-Love can be R(Real)-Love… ;)

If you get over-excited by your communication through the internet you might have over-fantasized it! You should meet before you fantasize too much… Be logical and don't expect too much… Should be careful there! ;)