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8:22 pm
April 3, 2009


Patung

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Post edited 4:58 am – April 25, 2009 by Patung


Sheldon of An Asian Wife fame, using his lovely wife to promote his business.

I actually sort of 'know' him now, via email anyway so I'm not going to say anything bad here supposing I even wanted to but here is the video: It's titled My Indonesian wife. I can find YOU one like her too -

11:09 pm
April 3, 2009


diego

Guest

She looks like Anggun (52% match)

1:53 am
April 4, 2009


YellowDaisy

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Post edited 6:59 pm – April 3, 2009 by YellowDaisy


That's an awefull video and sickening to watch, quite degrading honestly. That's from my perspective though, there might be some people who find it entertaining. Anyway, what kind of message is he trying to convey to the world about indonesian girls. 

8:48 am
April 4, 2009


Farah

Sumatra Jungle

Santri

posts 51

ohhh Diego… please !! Don't made my diva (Anggun) image damage!!

This girl is awfully silly. Sorry to be sarcastic, Anggun looks MORE smart than her ! at least she married with her producer, wich is much younger and more money.

This girl more like cafe-girl-buy-me-easy-will-do anything-as-you-pay-me-$$$ type. (gosh i am so angry !).

Anyway, good luck with her, and her grandpa (she looks happy tho)

….eww like theres no other younger, more succes, very nice and kind heart bule (shes running out of option or what??shes not that BAD looking ! omg !)

Agree with yellowdaisy !

….she is VERY silly, hah !

11:27 am
April 4, 2009


Patung

Guest

diego said:

She looks like Anggun (52% match)


She might look like Anggun but can she dance like Anggun? And should there be a law against her dancing at all? It's a very strange video, I'll leave it at that…..

11:43 pm
April 4, 2009


dhea

Guest

Very strange and kind of disturbing video for me as Indonesian woman in my opinion, seem like her husband happy to have her as pet toy rather than a wife.

Good for her if she happy with him.

1:15 am
April 6, 2009


Aluang Anak Bayang

Abangan

posts 5

Post edited 5:09 am – April 6, 2009 by Patung


Yuyun versus white biatch:

8:53 pm
April 6, 2009


fullmoonflower

Abangan

posts 9

Post edited 2:31 pm – April 6, 2009 by fullmoonflower


Speechless….

the guy is

aduuuhh…..

1:11 am
April 7, 2009


fullmoonflower

Abangan

posts 9

Denmas Aluang……

quite funny 

but seriously, this woman needs help…

3:35 am
April 9, 2009


YellowDaisy

Guest

oh dear…..

4:38 pm
April 10, 2009


Isana

Abangan

posts 3

Post edited 9:41 am – April 10, 2009 by Isana


…sick

1:56 am
April 11, 2009


diego

Guest

I admire that woman, for aguantando being together with such a creature.

9:21 am
April 12, 2009


Farah

Sumatra Jungle

Santri

posts 51

GrinGrinGrin

Thats a huge gap between indonesia girl and… white "chunky"…

But there's also several pretty caucasian woman too.. like the one from russia… with black hair, and slim, and tall… hmmm… Cool

7:34 pm
April 14, 2009


syonan

Singapore

Abangan

posts 6

I just wonder, a young Indonesian woman with an older man, how does she feels, if the older man is not able to provide her the nafkah batin.

7:23 pm
August 29, 2009


Baeksu

Santri

posts 19

I'd give 'em two years max, just because I'm an optimistic type.

6:33 am
August 30, 2009


Dragonwall

Santri

posts 58

Looks to me it is more like Human Trafficking rather than sincere match making.  Especially it involves the more older foreign male.

9:26 am
August 30, 2009


Baeksu

Santri

posts 19

Well, yes, Dragonwall, but the question is who is trafficking whom?

4:49 pm
August 30, 2009


Dragonwall

Santri

posts 58

Well you want to know?  So that you be informed.  When a caucasian male or someone gets some girl from lets say Indonesia China or, Vietnam, what they do is they will set up a kind of relative operations.  Then gradually they grauated into multiple application and that is when money comes into action.  So this is Human Trafficking.

I used to work in a HR company that handles tens of thousands of filipino workers to Middle East, HK Singapore and Malaysia.  we are aware of filipino companies doing that.  Since Singapore has one of the strictest law in the world, we were fortunate not being involved.  That's all I can say.

In China especially Guangzhou and Vietnam, many of them even arrange for wedding to take place in China, photographs taken etc etc.  The male will then fly to these places once they receive the greenbacks.  When the bride arrives the balance must be paid before they will proceed with documentations.

Let say this caucasian guy marries an Indonesian girl.  I bet you they will gradually scheme up for people who are interested in migrating or marrying a US,  Brits or Aussie husband.  The very first things is that the currencies took an added advantage for them to take the baits.  Some ended up as sex slave.  Eventually they will find, if that is a poor retired husband, ways of finding additional income.  Then this will set the pace.  After the first successful attempt the second calls for a higher price.  Same things as those who were approved by Depnaker to work in Taiwan.  Asked them how much they pay to get there.  After arriving there and commence work how much of their salaries did they receive.  I am not sure if you know but the trick is up the sleeves eveready.

Therefore I asked the question about Din Samsuddin in the Uighur incident blog when he farted.  I asked how many of the Indonesian Humans were trafficked by his department.

I am a very well verse person in these matters and the term of modus operandi.  I am also well aware about how these people from China were trafficked to the US, Canada, Australia, Austria, France etc by those snakeheads.  They pay between 25,00 to 50,000 USD per head.  I handle their legal documents therefore I know.

Asked yourself how much an Indonesian applying to come to the US to study and asked them how much they pay.  It is between 30 to 45 million rupiahs.  Even though I am away from Indonesia I am well aware of these happennings because I also handle all their legal documents after they arrived here.  I will not elaborate the details of their personal encounter.

So the question as to who is trafficking these people you gauge that yourself.  Sometimes it takes personal sense of deduction to come to a solid conclusion.  There is no second way out.

I am sure there are some genuine ones, but it works both way one making use of the others to advatange themselves.

I give you an example of several encounters with retired Americans veterans eager to have a wife.  I mean a wife because they were married and most of them ended up in divorce.  On their later years being old they were unable to find a new mate.  You have heard of pre-nupts agreement?  Therefore many women find that unattractive to marry someone that old and retired with very little income from Uncle SAM.  So the lure and bait is readily available for Chinese girls to take.  That I know of was after they were married, they have to feed their husband, give them money, pay housings etc and ended up being a sex slave.  Some were even assaulted and beaten up with no one to turn to after they were unable to keep up with their husband's spending.

Those from Indonesia that approached us pertinent to marrying these people, we advice them against that.  But it is still their own perogative to decide what is called fate.

6:18 pm
August 30, 2009


Dragonwall

Santri

posts 58

CoolIf you look at the video and the website, what does that say.  Wasn't I right?  So now do you think any less than Human Tranfficking in the making!

3:04 am
September 1, 2009


cmeinwa

Abangan

posts 4

I agree with Dragon, it's gross, inhuman and sets a bad stereotype for people that have legitimate and loving inter-cultural relationships. Human trafficking is at an all-time high in world history. From children to adults, it is a despicable thing to profit from. Anyone that goes through a third party to pay for a "wife" really doesn't deserve one do they? I don't care if the woman ends up using the guy for citizenship, money, whatever, I'll side with her any day.



 
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