Dating Indonesian Girls

Apr 4th, 2006, in Girls, IM Posts, Opinion, by David

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venna Says:
February 20th, 2010 at 8:00 pm
@Inez: yep, you’re right. I spent most of my time as a teenager in foreign countries. And I always want to know more about everything that is new to me. It pumps my adrenaline, and it feels good everytime I take a risk and win it.
lcvs Says:
February 20th, 2010 at 8:03 pm
haha i just see brian a’s comment. well, yes, always the ‘play’ when sniffing, in fact i even let them eat their panties themselves too haha. bulwomen just love my javanese palmtree play of 1.82m as i already mentioned before on this forum.. do you need tips and tricks? they also work for balinese and japanese girls…
brian A Says:
February 20th, 2010 at 8:07 pm
lcvs… you are a pimp!!!!!!!!!!
lcvs Says:
February 20th, 2010 at 8:13 pm
haha, no i wish i was, then i would probably make a shipload of money around the world.. but no, bukan buaya darat ya! my motto is: F*CK SEX ! LOVE ART
venna Says:
February 20th, 2010 at 8:36 pm
@lcvs: it’s a challenge for muslim women when they stay in a country like that. I know some of them try to mingle with local people by not using hijab. Some still keep their religious identity and have no problem at all while adapting to their new environment. And of course some choose to just mingle among their own race/community.

Moving to another country is not easy. Lots of cultural shocks happened. Moslem or not, they face the same thing. I think in this case, love sometimes is not enough. They need to be tough and not giving up easily. But maybe for a moslem, there is another challenge: they are expected to show sympathy to another moslems, no matter what. Even sometimes they do irrational things. And when there’s clash between their current government, e.g. Belanda vs moslem countries, they feel that they have to pick a side. That’s a pretty heavy dillema.

I had a classmate which is a Pakistani girl. Her appearance is just like any American students here; no hijab, modern, tech savvy, open. But everytime we had a class discussion on religious topic or terrorism, she started to feel offended and insecure. She felt that all of her classmates stared at her; which was true because she was pretty, not because she was a moslem.
Inez Says:
February 20th, 2010 at 10:13 pm
Well it’s settled then why Venna is attracted more to foreigner… I don’t think you are low class Indonesian whore grew up in small village in Indonesia who adores anything with white color, well but that is the majority of Indonesian girl who dates bule, so don’t blame me the statistic speaks for itself..

Well BS, I don’t need a loser bule like you teach me about statistics, except if you can derive a complex Options Model that will give me 110% return, I’ve enough knowledge in pattern recognition and datamining method, where I find that they don’t give me enough advantage on my trading algorithm, but that’s not the point, the point is that I am familiar with probability, statistic and pattern recognition so don’t try to argue with me on that subject…

Icvs, I’ve never had any chemistry to sweet, romantic, gentle and feminized western man… I think they have too much estrogen at them look at their divorce rate well above 40%, they cannot control their women…

I can sense that you are kind of dominant, masculine Indonesian man who likes to control women….no wonder western girls are hungry for man like you, cause most western men are wussies…. But I have few bule ex-bf’s they were good as my doormat they will do anything I want them to do, but I got bored with them easily …..
lcvs Says:
February 20th, 2010 at 11:05 pm
? at some point on this forum i was called a ‘metro-man’ probably due to my pink with flower motif designed dress shirt, and now ‘dominant, masculine Indonesian man’ haha officially I am not Indonesian, i have a Dutch paspor, but I was born in SBY out of a 100 % Javanese couple, so i consider myself not so much as western or indonesian, but more as a para-performative artist-historian with Javanese skin, soul and heart (and palmtree of course) who literally looks from a western educated viewpoint (hence my Yves Saint Laurent glasses) to all these polemics concerning dating girls who have the same ancestors as my keluarga.

but inez i like your fire though, can i lit up my cuban cigar on that, or rather burn your panties on it? anyway since i am specialized in heuristic skills as a phd candidate at the department of history, but only familiar with spss statistics on a social sciences academic freshman year level, could both bs and you please learn me some more about it regarding mixed couples and their divorce rate, obesity and dominant sex positions? i am always eager to learn!
Inez Says:
February 21st, 2010 at 2:23 am
LOL ICVS,you are so tempting but no thanks, I have an Indonesian husband who will hunt you down and kick your ass himself if you try to flirt with his wife LOL….

That’s the drawback of having Indonesian husband, they are soo possessive and violent when it comes to their territory….. if I have western husband (esp American&western European) it’s ok for me to fooling around cause he will be chicken out when someone try to flirt with his wife anyway:) and of course being so “open mind” they won’t mind if someone open their wife’s legs……

So ICVS don’t ever try to flirt with Indonesian husband’s wife:) NEVER NEVER NEVER…. except if you really want to feel one of that “ketupat bengkulu” or even Clurit, Badik or Golok, LOL…..
lcvs Says:
February 21st, 2010 at 2:59 am
okay inez, fair enough. so i’m gonna try venna now with my western feminized looks and some whitening creme (damn that creme!).. haha. but you have to know: aku tidak takut for indonesian husbands. last summer i just seduced a 100 % asli javanese girl who’s indonesian pacar serves in a kopassus unit.. moreover, as a somewhat west-european hitam sekali male i carry my keris jowo unconventionally at the front
diego Says:
February 21st, 2010 at 3:02 am
I am really sorry if your dad is a couch potato who never work out, but if you spend more time in fitness centers in Segitiga Emas instead of just whoring around in bule bars where the only Indonesian man you see is the pot bellied satpam, you will see soo many gorgeous educated Indonesian men working out…

What’s with the hate against pot-bellied men? Sometimes they can be georgeous too. Just check out places like planetbears dot com.
Inez Says:
February 21st, 2010 at 3:08 am
Icvs, you’re a baaaad boyyy dangerous nihh….I am out of here sweetie
bs Says:
February 21st, 2010 at 3:16 am
@inez

complex Options Model that will give me 110% return,

You’re not a quant are you? You should be silent about that for a couple of years if so, financial statistics have not brought the world much good lately

I don’t know if you really understand your stuff or not, but you did mix up some terms in your post. Most of the people in this branch never say they have enough knowledge or throw around lingo unnecessarily. You do the opposite in your post. And kicking non-techies around with these terms in a debate on cultural differences is both useless and below the belt if you ask me.

Anyway, to stick with lcvs’s idea (which is way more appropriate for this thread): great research project, I’d love to be in on that. Since people tend to lie a lot, I do think we need a psychologist on the team (anyone?). Getting the correct, unbiased numbers out will be hard …
diego Says:
February 21st, 2010 at 3:25 am
@bs: I could never figure what your gravatar exactly is. Is it a woman throwing her face looking at the opposite direction? Or a granny?
bs Says:
February 21st, 2010 at 3:33 am
Like most of the issues discussed on IM, that depends on your mindset
Images like these are used to determine preferences and prejudice, seems you score quite balanced and neutral (you saw both). The extreme ones, Rorschach and how to answer them, are on wikipedia now. Fun if you ever need to fool your local Freud.
Max Says:
February 21st, 2010 at 4:34 pm
@ Icvs
Go for it dude. I’ll keep a lookout for the husband.
ET Says:
February 21st, 2010 at 8:35 pm
@ bs

And kicking non-techies around with these terms in a debate on cultural differences is both useless and below the belt if you ask me.

Don’t be too harsh on ibu Inez. She’s only showing the typical reactions of overcompensating a latent inferiority syndrome.
Romson Says:
February 21st, 2010 at 11:35 pm
You know why white man like to take advantage of indonesian chicks?

Because the indo chick is not interested in the man, but in the kind of live she assumes to get.

These guys are not stupid and you get what you deserve if you go into a realationship like that, what the hell would allah say about that?

And please show us more strong independent women from indonesia, i’m sick of all the easy indo chicks who think they hit the jackpot with a white dude.

I’m from Netherland (belanda) and when i see the easy indo chicks here, 9 out of 10 times they only do this for the greencard and the guy threats them worse then shit.

I geuss that’s what you get if you think you can get an easy life in the west without “really” loving the guy.

And to be honest these chicks deserve way better, but for some reason they sell their soul like it’s nothing and would even eat shit if her western guy told her so.
venna Says:
February 22nd, 2010 at 12:38 am
Romson, 9 out of 10 is a pretty high numbers and quite shocking. Sorry if I sound naive, but as far as I know, girls who dating foreigners are at least pretty independent and know how to play the card. Of course I heard about abuse, etc, etc… but there are lot of cases too where the men become the prey and suffered. So when you said 9 out of 10 girls being abused… wow. I am speechless.
Romson Says:
February 22nd, 2010 at 1:21 am
That’s the whole point. These girls prey on these men, 9 out of 10 times they don’t really love the guy. It’s all for the greencard and hope of a “better life” and the guy threats her like shit because 9 out of 10 times she continues her slutty behaviour in the west.

But these guys are getting smarter now and using the girls like shit turning the tables on them. They see now that all these chicks want is a greencard and the moment the have it they leave.

Of course there are some good marriages among them, but very rare.

And to be honest this shit don’t only happen with easy indo ass, but with most of the women who think they will have a better life in the west by marry a white dude. many examples here of women who left their white guy after they got the greencard.

I have red here that most indo women think that white men are stupid and no good for anything but getting them a greencard. This is not true.

9 out of 10 times you will get your ass used in the west and in some cases by his brother, father and all of his friends too.

I mean why would you wanna play the cards right if it’s real love?

That comes naturally.
venna Says:
February 22nd, 2010 at 2:04 am
why would you wanna play the cards right if it’s real love?
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Still we need to know where our position is and anticipate the worst. Just like in America, people love each other and marry, but they still think about pre-nup and agreement and being independent economically to protect themselves, just in case love changes to the wrong direction. Life can be pretty messed up at some point, and sometimes merely believe that love will answers all is so silly if not stupid. Just like you said, what will allah say when this happen? maybe He will said: suck it up, you yourself that choose the wrong way LOL… no, I’m just kidding about the allah stuff. But that’s what I meant by playing card.
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By the way, what you’ve said really makes my stomach growling. Ugh. I can’t believe it.
bs Says:
February 22nd, 2010 at 2:40 am
Dear Romson, do you happen to wear a tin foil hat?

@ET
I wouldn’t be surprised if you’re right
Inez Says:
February 22nd, 2010 at 4:33 am
@ET hmm I don’t know whether I should feel inferior to loser bule guy who can’t get woman back home or a sell out Indonesian girl who’s willing to spread their legs to any loser guy with western passport…

@Romson, it’s understandable that we Indonesian/Asian girls are perceived as cheap/sell out in your country, especially when we get our residentship/citizenship by marriage with bules.

But there are still (very very very small percentage) of independent educated Asian women who can get good career and lifestyle in western countries without spreading their legs to bules…
Romson Says:
February 22nd, 2010 at 6:07 am
@Inez, I totally agree, and that should be more the kinda stereotype of asian/indo women instead of …

@venna, i bet it sucks playing cards like that
venna Says:
February 22nd, 2010 at 6:12 am
How can it be suck? It’s logic and normal here. It sucks if you let yourself without protection. And I think all girls that you mentioned falls into this category; know nothing about living abroad and how to seek help when bad things happen.
brian A Says:
February 22nd, 2010 at 9:31 am
You know why white man like to take advantage of indonesian chicks?

Because the indo chick is not interested in the man, but in the kind of live she assumes to get.

Im assuming you are talking about extremely desperate Indonesian women?
because if she would rather live in a western country and also spend her live with some orang jancok ….. instead of live in her country aloun or with good man.

And white men dont prey on anything and also Indo women dont prey on white men, there isnt any room for playing games

If playing games then shouldnt marry or be married!
ET Says:
February 22nd, 2010 at 12:19 pm
@ inez

@ET hmm I don’t know whether I should feel inferior to loser bule guy who can’t get woman back home or a sell out Indonesian girl who’s willing to spread their legs to any loser guy with western passport…

It’s your constant hammering on the subject that raises suspicion of inferiority syndrome. You shouldn’t give away your inner feelings so openly and easily. It only invites more abuse.
Balin Says:
February 24th, 2010 at 4:15 pm
hey … wake up guys,,, its true that bule bale.. or whatever you call that Caucasian thing dating Indonesian people,, you want to know the truth why?
even the bule is rich or not handsome or ugly, the girls still love them and worship them, because they would very proud when dating bule, why because bule is still rare among people in Indonesia, second for Indonesian girls that like to make sex, well choosing bule would be a new excitement and experience.
Everybody in the world would always choose things that not many people have or choose things that not everybody can use.
why buy 2009 bajaj when you can have 1999 Bmw right?
I would pay a good respect for Indonesian girls that never got this kind of thingking, dating bule its just the same like dating locally not worshiping bule things alot. now this type of girl is 1 in million in Indonesia, and the rest is …as you can see all the girls who post their comment here that is the rest, wanna be like artist superstars,???,, but one more thing bule not different from Indonesia people ,, they got to the toilet also to … you know. nothing so great about that, just they all more modern in technology because they got early independence from us head start i mean,, .. ok finish going to stop the vodka now… blurrpp
brian A Says:
February 24th, 2010 at 9:33 pm
ok finish going to stop the vodka now… blurrpp

no dont stop, that was good reading
FonnyDivaMermaid Says:
February 24th, 2010 at 11:44 pm
well its a good reading too for me, since I have been dating with a bule, so that I would like to know about everything in it.
sobhana Says:
February 25th, 2010 at 1:58 am
men like Balin (i’m assuming this person is a man) become bitter because for some reason they perceive this issue to be somewhat of a ***measuring contest. indeed it provokes them to get on the defensive-side, where the drive to start judging women as gold-diggers, sluts, and so worth comes into play due to his pathetic reasoning.